{"id":5181,"date":"2024-03-23T12:26:24","date_gmt":"2024-03-23T12:26:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/megareform.com.tr\/haber\/?p=5181"},"modified":"2024-03-23T12:58:23","modified_gmt":"2024-03-23T12:58:23","slug":"biten-iliski-sonrasi-hayata-devam-edebilmek","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/megareform.com.tr\/haber\/biten-iliski-sonrasi-hayata-devam-edebilmek\/","title":{"rendered":"Biten \u0130li\u015fki Sonras\u0131 Hayata Devam Edebilmek"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-large-font-size\">A\u015fk ac\u0131s\u0131 bir anda yok olmaz. Ancak sizi sevmeyen veya size zarar veren birini sevmekten tamamen vazge\u00e7emeseniz bile, bu duygular\u0131 olumlu ve sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 yollarla y\u00f6netebilir, b\u00f6ylece ya\u015fananlar\u0131n size daha fazla ac\u0131 vermesini engelleyebilirsiniz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Romantik ve sevgi dolu bir ili\u015fkinin sona ermesini tam olarak hazmetmek ve normal hayat\u0131n\u0131za d\u00f6nmek zaman alabilir. Bir ili\u015fkiden ne istedi\u011finizi belirlemek ve ge\u00e7mi\u015f ili\u015fkinizde ya\u015fananlar\u0131 kabul etmek, ya\u015famda ilerlemenize yard\u0131mc\u0131 olacak \u00f6nemli ad\u0131mlard\u0131r. \u00c7o\u011fu insan kime a\u015f\u0131k olacaklar\u0131na genellikle kendilerinin karar veremeyece\u011fi konusunda hemfikirdir. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ilk g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fte a\u015fk, bir anda etkilenme ve \u00e7ekim gibi yo\u011fun duygular d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelere bask\u0131n olur ve kendinizi a\u015f\u0131k hissedebilirsiniz. Ancak baz\u0131 durumlarda, durum kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 olmayabilir. Belki de sizin i\u00e7in ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde hissetmeyen birini seviyorsunuzdur. S\u00fcrekli olarak sizi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmedi\u011fini ve \u00f6nemsemedi\u011fini g\u00f6steren birini seviyorsunuz. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Belki de siz ve partneriniz birbirinizi yo\u011fun bir \u015fekilde seviyorsunuz, ama uzun s\u00fcreli ciddi bir birlikteli\u011fi s\u00fcrd\u00fcremeyecek kadar \u00e7ok farkl\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131z var. Durum ne olursa olsun, a\u015fk karma\u015f\u0131k bir duygudur. Ve bir ili\u015fkinin size hi\u00e7bir faydas\u0131 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131k olsa bile, duygular\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 kontrol etmek veya duygular\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n etkisinden \u00e7\u0131kmak size imkans\u0131z gibi gelebilir. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bu ipu\u00e7lar\u0131, hayat\u0131n\u0131za bakmaya ve ya\u015famda ilerleyebilmenize yard\u0131mc\u0131 olabilir. Amerika Birle\u015fik Devletleri\u2019nde bulunan San Diego \u015fehrinde evlilik ve aile terapisti olan Kim Egel, &#8220;Tek tarafl\u0131 a\u015fka e\u015flik eden \u00f6zlem, duygusal a\u00e7\u0131dan etkileyebilir ve ki\u015finin hayat\u0131nda \u00e7ok fazla rahats\u0131zl\u0131\u011fa neden olabilir&#8221; diyor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\">Durumun ger\u00e7ekli\u011fini kabul edin <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0130yimserlik k\u00f6t\u00fc bir \u00f6zellik de\u011fildir. Asl\u0131nda, zor veya ac\u0131 verici durumlarda umuda tutunma yetene\u011fi genellikle ki\u015fisel g\u00fcc\u00fcn bir i\u015fareti olarak kabul edilir. Ancak zor durumdaki ili\u015fkiler s\u00f6z konusu oldu\u011funda, hayal etti\u011finiz o mutlu gelece\u011fin yerine, i\u00e7inde bulundu\u011funuz mevcut ger\u00e7ekli\u011fi g\u00f6z \u00f6n\u00fcnde bulundurmak daha faydal\u0131d\u0131r. Sevdi\u011finiz ki\u015fi size kar\u015f\u0131 ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde hissetmiyor olabilir. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ya da belki samimi anlarda kendini size \u00e7\u0131lg\u0131nca a\u015f\u0131k hissediyor ama zaman\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n geri kalan\u0131n\u0131 hemen her konuda anla\u015fmazl\u0131\u011fa d\u00fc\u015ferek ge\u00e7iriyorsunuz. \u0130li\u015fkinizden ya da birine olan a\u015fk\u0131n\u0131zdan vazge\u00e7menin ili\u015fkilerde ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z oldu\u011funuz anlam\u0131na geldi\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorsan\u0131z, tekrar d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn. Bunu kabul etmek cesaret ve \u00f6z fark\u0131ndal\u0131k gerektirir. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kendinizi geli\u015ftirme yolunda olumlu bir ad\u0131m att\u0131n\u0131z. \u0130li\u015fkinizin bir yere gitmedi\u011fini fark etmek muhtemelen duygular\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n bir gecede yok olmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flamayacakt\u0131r, ancak yine de bu \u00f6nemli bir ad\u0131md\u0131r. \u0130li\u015fki ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 ve anla\u015fma bozucu unsurlar\u0131 belirleyin. Bir ili\u015fkide ne istedi\u011finize ve kesinliklene istemedi\u011finize dikkatlice bakmak, ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ili\u015fkinin iyi bir e\u015fle\u015fme olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlaman\u0131za yard\u0131mc\u0131 olabilir. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized is-style-default\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/megareform.com.tr\/haber\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/Modern-Digital-Marketing-Agency-Instagram-Post-1200-x-800-piksel-2024-01-27T213353.824.jpg?resize=1024%2C683&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-5183\" style=\"aspect-ratio:1.5;width:615px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/megareform.com.tr\/haber\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/Modern-Digital-Marketing-Agency-Instagram-Post-1200-x-800-piksel-2024-01-27T213353.824.jpg?resize=1024%2C683&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/megareform.com.tr\/haber\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/Modern-Digital-Marketing-Agency-Instagram-Post-1200-x-800-piksel-2024-01-27T213353.824.jpg?resize=300%2C200&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/megareform.com.tr\/haber\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/Modern-Digital-Marketing-Agency-Instagram-Post-1200-x-800-piksel-2024-01-27T213353.824.jpg?resize=768%2C512&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/megareform.com.tr\/haber\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/Modern-Digital-Marketing-Agency-Instagram-Post-1200-x-800-piksel-2024-01-27T213353.824.jpg?resize=1170%2C780&amp;ssl=1 1170w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/megareform.com.tr\/haber\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/Modern-Digital-Marketing-Agency-Instagram-Post-1200-x-800-piksel-2024-01-27T213353.824.jpg?resize=585%2C390&amp;ssl=1 585w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/megareform.com.tr\/haber\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/Modern-Digital-Marketing-Agency-Instagram-Post-1200-x-800-piksel-2024-01-27T213353.824.jpg?resize=263%2C175&amp;ssl=1 263w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/megareform.com.tr\/haber\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/Modern-Digital-Marketing-Agency-Instagram-Post-1200-x-800-piksel-2024-01-27T213353.824.jpg?resize=600%2C400&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/megareform.com.tr\/haber\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/Modern-Digital-Marketing-Agency-Instagram-Post-1200-x-800-piksel-2024-01-27T213353.824.jpg?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Diyelim ki siz ve partneriniz aras\u0131nda harika bir ili\u015fki var. Birlikte ne kadar \u00e7ok zaman ge\u00e7irirseniz, kendinizi o kadar ba\u011fl\u0131 hissediyorsunuz. Belli bir s\u00fcrenin sonunda, ona a\u015f\u0131k oldu\u011funuzu fark ediyorsunuz. Ondan haber alamad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z s\u00fcreler, bazen bir g\u00fcn veya bir g\u00fcnden daha fazla oluyor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Whatsapp\u2019ta \u00e7evrimi\u00e7i oldu\u011funu g\u00f6r\u00fcyorsunuz, ancak size hala cevap vermiyor ya da ge\u00e7 d\u00f6n\u00fcyor. \u0130li\u015fkilerde iyi ileti\u015fime \u00f6ncelik veriyorsan\u0131z, size zaman\u0131nda geri d\u00f6nmemesi, bunun iyi bir e\u015fle\u015fme olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n olduk\u00e7a iyi bir g\u00f6stergesidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A\u015fk\u0131n sizin i\u00e7in ne anlama geldi\u011fini netle\u015ftirin &#8220;Baz\u0131 a\u015fklar her zaman kalbinizi t\u0131rmalayabilir,&#8221; diyor Egel. &#8220;Baz\u0131 ili\u015fkiler, \u00f6zellikle de hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n \u00f6nemli d\u00f6nemlerinde b\u00fcy\u00fcmemizin ayr\u0131lmaz bir par\u00e7as\u0131 olanlar, kim oldu\u011fumuzun i\u00e7sel yap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 olu\u015fturur.&#8221; Anlaml\u0131 bir a\u015fk\u0131 b\u0131rakmak, bir zamanlar sahip oldu\u011funuz her \u015feyi de b\u0131rak\u0131yormu\u015fsunuz gibi hissetmenize neden olabilir. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ancak, ili\u015fkiden \u00f6\u011frenmi\u015f olabilece\u011finiz her \u015fey de dahil olmak \u00fczere, ili\u015fkiyle ilgili iyi \u015feyleri kabul etme f\u0131rsat\u0131n\u0131 de\u011ferlendirmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n. Ne kadar ac\u0131 olursa olsun hissetti\u011finiz duygular\u0131 onaylay\u0131n. Onlara kalbinizde yer a\u00e7\u0131n. Duygular\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 inkar etmek veya g\u00f6rmezden gelmek sizi geride tutabilir. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Deneyiminizi onurland\u0131rmak ve bu yo\u011fun duygular\u0131n ge\u00e7mi\u015finizin bir par\u00e7as\u0131 olmas\u0131na izin vermek, huzur bulmaya ve ilerlemeye ba\u015flaman\u0131za yard\u0131mc\u0131 olur. Dahas\u0131, a\u015fk\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n ge\u00e7mi\u015fteki \u00f6nemini kabul etmek, art\u0131k size nas\u0131l hizmet etmedi\u011fini g\u00f6rmenize yard\u0131mc\u0131 olabilir. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\">Gelece\u011fe bak\u0131n <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Eski sevgilinize ya da duygular\u0131n\u0131za kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k vermeyen birine duydu\u011funuz a\u015fk sizi s\u0131n\u0131rlayabilir. \u0130li\u015fki kuramayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z birine tak\u0131l\u0131p kal\u0131rsan\u0131z, ba\u015fka biriyle mutlulu\u011fu bulmakta da zorlan\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z. Kendinizi ciddi bir ili\u015fkiye haz\u0131r hissetmeseniz bile, yeni insanlarla yaz\u0131\u015fmalar ve minik minik tan\u0131\u015fmalar ve d\u0131\u015far\u0131da pek \u00e7ok harika insan oldu\u011funu fark etmenize yard\u0131mc\u0131 olabilir. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Daha ciddi bir ili\u015fki ya\u015famak istedi\u011finizde, do\u011fru partneri bulmak genellikle biraz zaman al\u0131r. Randevularda ya\u015fanan hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131klar\u0131, ileti\u015fimde yanl\u0131\u015f anlamalar ve frekans\u0131n yeni ki\u015fiyle tutmamas\u0131 eskiden sevdi\u011finiz ki\u015fiye tekrar d\u00f6nme iste\u011fini tetikleyebilir. Ancak, her zaman &#8211; ilk ba\u015fta zor olsa bile &#8211; , ge\u00e7mi\u015finize de\u011fil ileriye bakmaya kararl\u0131 olun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hi\u00e7 kimse size do\u011fru ki\u015fiymi\u015f gibi gelmiyorsa, s\u00fcregelen ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z \u00fczerinde \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak i\u00e7in zamana ihtiyac\u0131n\u0131z olabilir. Bu \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma devam ederken bir m\u00fcddet yaln\u0131z kalmakta ve duygular\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 netle\u015ftirmekte hi\u00e7 bir sak\u0131nca yoktur. Ancak bu durumlar\u0131 d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fckle ele al\u0131n: Ne arad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ve \u015fu anda bir ili\u015fkide partnerinize ne verebilece\u011finiz konusunda a\u00e7\u0131k ve d\u00fcr\u00fcst olun. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\">Di\u011fer ili\u015fkilere \u00f6ncelik verin <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kalp k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 atlatmaya ve iyile\u015fmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z ve aile \u00fcyeleriniz size destek olabilir. Hatta kendi deneyimlerinden payla\u015facaklar\u0131 baz\u0131 yararl\u0131 i\u00e7g\u00f6r\u00fcleri veya bilgelikleri bile olabilir. Toksik bir ili\u015fkinin etkilerinden kurtulmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorsan\u0131z, sevdikleriniz de size g\u00fc\u00e7 ve rehberlik sa\u011flayabilir. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sadece etkile\u015fimlerinizin size nas\u0131l hissettirdi\u011fine dikkat etti\u011finizden emin olun. Birinin sizi veya se\u00e7imlerinizi yarg\u0131lad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ya da ba\u015fka \u015fekillerde kendinizi k\u00f6t\u00fc hissetmenize neden oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorsan\u0131z, onunla ge\u00e7irdi\u011finiz zaman\u0131 s\u0131n\u0131rlay\u0131n veya tamamen ileti\u015fimi sonland\u0131r\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized is-style-default\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/megareform.com.tr\/haber\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/Modern-Digital-Marketing-Agency-Instagram-Post-1200-x-800-piksel-2024-01-27T213454.113.jpg?resize=1024%2C683&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-5184\" style=\"aspect-ratio:1.5;width:567px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/megareform.com.tr\/haber\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/Modern-Digital-Marketing-Agency-Instagram-Post-1200-x-800-piksel-2024-01-27T213454.113.jpg?resize=1024%2C683&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/megareform.com.tr\/haber\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/Modern-Digital-Marketing-Agency-Instagram-Post-1200-x-800-piksel-2024-01-27T213454.113.jpg?resize=300%2C200&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/megareform.com.tr\/haber\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/Modern-Digital-Marketing-Agency-Instagram-Post-1200-x-800-piksel-2024-01-27T213454.113.jpg?resize=768%2C512&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/megareform.com.tr\/haber\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/Modern-Digital-Marketing-Agency-Instagram-Post-1200-x-800-piksel-2024-01-27T213454.113.jpg?resize=1170%2C780&amp;ssl=1 1170w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/megareform.com.tr\/haber\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/Modern-Digital-Marketing-Agency-Instagram-Post-1200-x-800-piksel-2024-01-27T213454.113.jpg?resize=585%2C390&amp;ssl=1 585w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/megareform.com.tr\/haber\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/Modern-Digital-Marketing-Agency-Instagram-Post-1200-x-800-piksel-2024-01-27T213454.113.jpg?resize=263%2C175&amp;ssl=1 263w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/megareform.com.tr\/haber\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/Modern-Digital-Marketing-Agency-Instagram-Post-1200-x-800-piksel-2024-01-27T213454.113.jpg?resize=600%2C400&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/megareform.com.tr\/haber\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/Modern-Digital-Marketing-Agency-Instagram-Post-1200-x-800-piksel-2024-01-27T213454.113.jpg?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\">Kendinize zaman ay\u0131r\u0131n <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kendinizi s\u0131r\u0131ls\u0131klam a\u015f\u0131k hissetti\u011finizde, bir partnerde istediklerini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz \u015feylere uyum sa\u011flamak i\u00e7in g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fczde veya ki\u015fili\u011finizde k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck (veya o kadar da k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck olmayan) de\u011fi\u015fiklikler yapabilirsiniz. \u0130nk\u00e2r etti\u011finiz, bast\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ya da de\u011fi\u015ftirdi\u011finiz y\u00f6nlerinizi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Belki tercih etti\u011finizden daha \u015f\u0131k giyindiniz, hi\u00e7 ilgi duymad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z bir sporu takip etmeye ba\u015flad\u0131n\u0131z ya da en sevdi\u011finiz hobinizden vazge\u00e7tiniz. Ya da belki duygular\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 tam olarak ifade etmekten ka\u00e7\u0131nd\u0131n\u0131z ve ihtiyac\u0131n\u0131z olan\u0131 istemeyi b\u0131rakt\u0131n\u0131z. Bu de\u011fi\u015fiklikler konusunda kendinizi rahat hissediyor musunuz? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0130li\u015fkide kolayca kaybedebilece\u011finiz y\u00f6nlerinizi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek, sizi siz oldu\u011funuz i\u00e7in ger\u00e7ekten sevmeyen birine olan sevginizi azaltman\u0131za yard\u0131mc\u0131 olabilir. Kendinize alan a\u00e7\u0131n Bu bariz bir ad\u0131m gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcnebilir, ancak \u00f6nemli bir ad\u0131md\u0131r. Hayat\u0131n\u0131za devam etmeye haz\u0131r oldu\u011funuzda, araya mesafe koymak ataca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z en iyi ad\u0131m olur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ara s\u0131ra gelen bir mesaj, eski sevgiliyle ilgili bir haber veya Instagramda denk geldi\u011finiz bir g\u00f6nderi bile \u00e7oktan geride b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz duygular\u0131 yeniden g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir \u015fekilde canland\u0131rabilir. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n velayetini payla\u015fman\u0131z veya birlikte \u00e7al\u0131\u015fman\u0131z gibi ger\u00e7ekten zorunlu haller olmad\u0131k\u00e7a o ki\u015fiyle ileti\u015fime ge\u00e7mekten ka\u00e7\u0131nmak isteyebilirsiniz. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Eskiden birlikte \u00e7ok zaman ge\u00e7iren arkada\u015flarsan\u0131z, \u015fimdilik ba\u015fka arkada\u015flarla zaman ge\u00e7irmek ak\u0131ll\u0131ca olabilir. Arkada\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 s\u00fcrd\u00fcrmek isteyebilirsiniz. \u0130li\u015fkiniz sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131ysa bu k\u00f6t\u00fc bir hedef de\u011fildir. Ancak a\u015fk\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n yo\u011funlu\u011fu azalana kadar beklemeyi unutmay\u0131n. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Aksi takdirde, kendinize gereksiz yere ac\u0131 \u00e7ektirebilirsiniz. Biraz zaman alabilece\u011fini anlay\u0131n A\u015fk duygular\u0131 kaybolabilir ve kaybolur da, ancak bu genellikle h\u0131zl\u0131 bir s\u00fcre\u00e7 de\u011fildir. Ve bu arada \u00e7ok fazla rahats\u0131zl\u0131k hissetmeniz \u00e7ok normaldir. \u0130\u015fte bu d\u00f6nemi atlatman\u0131za yard\u0131mc\u0131 olacak baz\u0131 ipu\u00e7lar\u0131:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\">Kendinize kar\u015f\u0131 sab\u0131rl\u0131 olun<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ayn\u0131 durumdaki bir arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131za s\u00f6yleyebileceklerinizi kendinize s\u00f6yleyerek \u00f6z \u015fefkat uygulay\u0131n. Ac\u0131 \u00e7ekmenin do\u011fal oldu\u011funu kabul edin. Ac\u0131n\u0131n sonsuza kadar s\u00fcrmeyece\u011fini kendinize hat\u0131rlat\u0131n. Sizin i\u00e7in do\u011fru olmayan birini, hatta sizi inciten birini sevmek sizi aptal ya da kusurlu yapmaz. Birinin iyi y\u00f6nlerini g\u00f6rmek ve de\u011fi\u015fece\u011fine dair umut beslemek kolayd\u0131r. Bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirmek ve muhtemelen de\u011fi\u015fmeyeceklerini fark etmek zaman alabilir. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\">Bir terapistle konu\u015fun <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Egel, &#8220;\u0130li\u015fki meseleleri bizi ger\u00e7ekten kalbimizi ac\u0131tan yerlere g\u00f6t\u00fcrebilir&#8221; diyor ve terapiyi a\u015fa\u011f\u0131daki durumlarda yard\u0131mc\u0131 bir kaynak olarak \u00f6neriyor Hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 normalde ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z gibi ya\u015famakta zorlan\u0131yorsan\u0131z Duygular\u0131n\u0131z hakk\u0131nda kafan\u0131z\u0131n kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 hissediyorsan\u0131z Duygular\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 tan\u0131makta veya kabul etmekte sorun ya\u015f\u0131yorsan\u0131z<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Terapi, duygular\u0131 ke\u015ffetmek ve bunlar\u0131 verimli bir \u015fekilde ele almak ve kendinizi ifade edip konu\u015fmak i\u00e7in g\u00fcvenli, yarg\u0131lay\u0131c\u0131 olmayan bir alan sa\u011flar. Bir terapist, yo\u011funlu\u011fu azalana kadar bu duygular\u0131 y\u00f6netmek i\u00e7in size ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kma becerileri de \u00f6\u011fretebilir. \u0130ntihar d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceleriniz varsa, ya\u015fama kadar umutsuz hissediyorsan\u0131z ve s\u00fcrekli depresyon veya anksiyete duygular\u0131 ya\u015f\u0131yorsan\u0131z hemen profesyonel yard\u0131m almak her zaman en iyisidir. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sonu\u00e7 olarak hepimiz karma\u015f\u0131k duygulara sahip e\u015fsiz varl\u0131klar\u0131z. Birini sevmekten ne kadar vazge\u00e7mek istesek de, duygular\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 bir cihaz\u0131n a\u00e7ma kapama d\u00fc\u011fmesine basar gibi kapatmak zordur. Bu duygular\u0131 her zaman bir \u015fekilde yan\u0131n\u0131zda ta\u015f\u0131yabilirsiniz. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A\u015fk duygusu ve \u00f6zlem sadece biz istedi\u011fimiz i\u00e7in ortadan bir anda yok olmaz. 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